Thoughts From A New Me

It Starts With Me... 

Starts With Me 

Man In The Mirror 

I'm Doin' Me 

More Than Enough 

I Am Enough!!! 🥰

And So Are You!!! 🤗 

flitterfly... :):):) 

DawnRobin 🥰 

A New Friend To Comfort Me... 

This seemed fitting for the day. 

A poem by: RavenWolf 

I’ll never tell you that I’ve always been strong and able to overcome anything..
Because that’s not true at all.
There have been so many times that I didn’t think I’d be able to keep going, and I wanted to give up.
When life had knocked me down and beaten me up so viciously, I didn’t know if I’d see tomorrow.
But I did.
And the day after and the day after…
Until I realized that I was stronger than I thought.
I discovered something inside me that I didn’t think was there, a fiery strength that refused to let me stay down or quit.
No matter how loud the voice of self-doubt was, my will to survive and thrive was louder.
I would always claw my way back from rock bottom until I was able to see the light again..
And I couldn’t even tell you sometimes how I did it..
Being strong was the only choice I had.
I won’t tell you it was easy or painless, because so many times, it hurt like hell..
But that’s just part of life.
Growing, learning, overcoming, and rising above the challenges that are certain to come.
It’s not always pretty the way I keep going. Putting one foot after the other sometimes means I trip and fall a time or two…
But that’s okay.
I get up, dust myself off, and start back again.
That’s just who I am and will always be.
No matter how intense the flames of failure are that try to swallow me whole,
Count on me to rise out of the ashes each time stronger than I was before.
I don’t have it all figured out and can’t tell you where I’ll be next week..
And that’s okay.
I don’t have to.
But I will tell you that no matter what comes my way, I can handle it.
I got this.
And I always will.
|ravenwolf

A Gift Given... 🧡 

It's been a depressing, mournful day. 

So i went for my daily walk, and stopped off on the way back and treated myself to some comforts. 

There was also some worthers original & some dark chocolate. 

Mmmmm Good... 🥰 

Thank You 

flitterfly... :):):) 

DawnRobin 🥰 

Life Sucks & So Does Death... 🥀 

For the living. ❤️🖤❤️🖤 

My heart is breaking. 

My heart is heavy, breaking with the burden of losing you. 

My eyes weep with tears of past memories being with you. 

My mind plays over all that you are, all that you have done, and all that you have been in my life. 

My aching heart mourns of the loss of a great man. 

Sorrow, it fills my soul, remembering you are no longer here. 

I ach for a tme long ago. 

R.I.P.  

Linden Miller  ❤️🖤❤️🖤 

Dad 🥀  

My heart goes out to his family, my family. 

Wishing I could be there to help you through these times of need. 

I am saddened for your burden. 

Deeply honored to to be accepted and loved as a sister, mother, daughter, and friend. 

Thank You 

flitterfly... :(:(:(  

DawnRobin  ❤️🖤❤️🖤   🥀 

Douchenozzle.... 😁

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1WzDDaC27m2k6Wya/?mibextid=D5vuiz 

Thank You 

flitterfly... :):):) 

DawnRobin 🥰 

Go Go Juice... 

Sex On Fire 🔥 

The Middle 

Apocalypse 

Unstoppable 

Thank You

flitterfly... :):):) 

DawnRobin 🥰 

My New Friend & His Sadist Desires... 

My new friend Sunny. 

Yep, apparently he decided that he wants to be my Big little Sadist. 

Crawls behind me early this morning, while i'm waking up reading blogs. 

Cuddles, purs, snuggles in close. Then bites and pulls my hair. Over and over again. Each time im telling him no, stop. As he snuggles in time and again to do this. 

He then snuggles closer. 

i get into reading blogs again. 

And this Big little guy now puts his claws into my back, just enough to make me "ohh" and is also continuing his pursuit of biting and pulling my hair. 

He then snuggles closer. 

He continues this feast, untill finally, claws me yet again a bit harder, "ohhh" no, stop that ! 

And instead keeps the claws locked, loaded, and in my skin, he then pulls me back with his claws, where I now feel the bite. 

After about three rounds of this, i then decided to give him the attention he wants.

Calling him my Big little sadist, and telling him i would indeed get ready and go and feed him. 

Lol 

Apparently, he's trying to either tell me he's hungry, or he thinks i need to practice a bit of pain tolerance. 🤔 

Go figure. 🤗🥰 

Thank You 

flitterfly... :):):) 

DawnRobin 🥰 

Presentation of one's self... 

in our lifestyle, we strive to make changes.

We work to better ourselves, we encourage others, we treat ourselves right, we work towards goals, we inspire one another, we strive to be kind, genuine and caring, to not only ourselves, but to others as well. 

We work hard to change for the better of one's self. 

We diligently put in the effort to give ourselves self-love, self-worth, self value, and self-respect. 

We strive and work hard to make these changes to be the best version of ourselves that we can be. 

We learn, we grow, and we are constantly, and consistently, continuing the growth process.  

To hold one's self to a higher standard. 

To be respectful of the thoughts and feelings of ourselves and others. 

To give unto another, the way you would want another to give unto you. 

To teach another the value of being kind in the face of judgment. 

To be appealing to another, not only to the eye, but in the way we hold ourselves to a higher mentality. 

Presentation is not only about appearance.

It is about how Y/you treat Y/yourself, how Y/you treat another, how Y/you handle situations, how Y/you speak to and / or about others, etc. 

It's taking and holding Y/yourself to a higher standard. 

Yielding to the inner peace inside Y/you, to be beautiful within Y/yourself, so that Y/you may be prepared and ready to one day yield to another, and / or Dominate another. 

To have no preconceived judgments. 

To being the best Y/you that Y/you can be. 

To be the best version of Y/yourself, so that one day Y/you will be ready to give over Y/your complete and total submission to another, and / or hold anothers submission. 

Y/your Dominant/submissive will expect Y/you to act with a compassionate, truthful, caring, kind,  generous heart, mind, body, and soul. 

your will becomes His will. 

you are a product of how He represents Himself. 

If you act up, brat out, are rude, unkind, talk about others, gossip, complain, are disagreeable, etc 

This makes your Dom look bad.

For He is responsible for you and your actions. your actions reflect badly onto Him.  

If your Dom were to guide you in the wrong manner or way, you then reflect that and project that onto others. 

We are here to learn and grow. 

To prepare ourselves in this journey of self-improvement of ourselves and for our future selves. 

Honestly, if our future selves have any chance at finding and keeping a dominant/submissive worth having.

We then have to make these changes within ourselves. 

It all starts here L/lady's and G/gentlemen. 

If we are to be the best versions of ourselves, we must start now.

We must give the best versions of ourselves to all, and to ourselves, right now. 

This is presentation of one's self. 

To bettering us and to helping others better themselves. 

Thank Y/you 

flitterfly... :):):) 

DawnRobin 🥰 

To yield... 

Thank You 

flitterfly... :):):) 

DawnRobin 🥰

Getting To Know Y/you... 

As we travel through this wonderland called kink, we meet people, talk, and become friends. 

We spend time writing blogs, learning this world, and learning about one another. 

As time continues, some of us stick around, and we grow. 

We become better versions of ourselves.

Then, one day, we start talking to someone that we have had the privilege of meeting here on the cage.

Soon, a friendship flourishes and starts to become a bit deeper. 

All the while, feelings start to become more prominent. 

As we continue, things seem to be progressing rather quickly in that friendship, and feelings tend to deepen. 

We start catching ourselves, wanting to jump rather than to crawl. 

So we take a step back. 

Good, right.... 

But as we take that step back to reassess and slow things back down to that crawl. 

We also tend to lose a bit of focus. 

After all, feelings are in place now. 

Emotions are out to play. 

One or both parties start to over-think, overreact, and tend to pull further back from the other. 

Remember to talk, be clear and respectful. Allow one another to know that Y/you are still on board.

Y/you still want to continue with the getting to know Y/you stage. This is critical. 

Staying focused allows one to handle things in the correct way. 

Transparency is crucial at this stage. 

Stay calm, do not over- think, or over analyze. Do not allow emotions to make Y/you go into a panic. 

This is when we tend to start pushing another away. 

Rushing is bad.

Pushing is bad. 

Overthinking is bad 

Overreacting is bad 

Talk to one another like Y/you have been all along. Countinue Your growth in this stage. 

Nothing is clear yet. 

Take this time to breathe, clear your head, and learn one another. Learn what's being told, what is expected later, and what is expected now. 

Take in every bit of this time that Y/you need to strengthen the bond and grow together, as people in kink, in this world, and in this lifestyle.  

Be their best friend in this world. Learn all Y/you can, have fun, after all Y/you get the privilege of having their time, energy, and affections spent on Y/you. 

If Y/you get to antsy, greedy, needy, or difficult. 

Chances are Y/you are the one that loses out. 

After all, how many toads did Y/you have to sift through before Y/you finally found your frog. 🐸 

Y/you are only at the getting to know Y/you stage. 

Have fun, right where Y/you are.

Y/you are right where Y/you need to be. 

Getting To Know Y/you... 

Thank Y/you

FlitterFly... :):):) 

DawnRobin 🥰 

A Simple Request... 

A Binding... 

Such a little thing... 

Exhilarating 

Freeing 

Sobering 

Breath-taking 

All the different thoughts, emotions, and feelings. 

Mmmmmm 

i can't imagine anything, other than to be collared, that would make me feel more connected, tethered, chained, or anchored to another. 

Binding oneself to another. 

It's as if one is reaching out, touching the vail of space, between time, and place. 

As if walking through the looking glass. 

Even distance does not stop the feelings of connection. 

So close, yet so far away. 

Funny how even now. 

Being untied after a night bound by rope, In the most simplest of ways. 

That i still feel tethered, anchored ⚓️ to another. 

Linked through the mind in such a way that time, space, and distance has no meaning. 

Only the feeling of being seen, felt, heard, wanted, needed, known, kept. 

A sense of belonging. 

How Freeing, Exhilarating, Breath-taking. 

To Be Content... 

Thank You 

FlitterFly... :):):) 

DawnRobin 🥰