D types as mentors

Can a dominant mentor a submissive? Yes they CAN. Should a dominant mentor a submissive? Prolly not a good idea. There are bunches of reasons why not and the top one being that people get the feelings ...

Tue Apr 02, 2024 12:40 am • 23 Replies • 1366 Views

Blank Profiles

I agree that it could be a red flag. However, the red flag to me is a lack of effort and a lack of education. In the Lifestyle, we need to match personalities first and then we match up kinks. How can ...

Fri Mar 15, 2024 1:55 am • 58 Replies • 2927 Views

Do Subs Have A Martyr Complex?

I think that, sometimes, people think too much. I guess if a person is not happy being themselves, and seem to have a martyr complex, then yes find a way change to be happy.

However, if a person i ...

Mon Feb 12, 2024 7:03 pm • 25 Replies • 1175 Views

How to Have Hard BDSM Conversations

I do think that, sometimes, submissives find it harder to break the submissive mindset in order to have these conversations. I know that I need to seriously meditate myself out of slave headspace to h ...

Sat May 06, 2023 3:51 am • 9 Replies • 1472 Views

Is there something halfway between Dd/lg & D/s?

I think that sometimes we lump little and baby girls together. For me, it’s not so. To me little deal in age regression, whereas baby girls deal with more of a role play. I’m not saying baby girls can ...

Fri Jan 14, 2022 7:25 pm • 33 Replies • 8314 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

I know this is either old school or just my mindset: I was taught that the man(in my case) makes the first move. I have needed to break through that with more use of internet connections but it doesn’ ...

Wed Jan 12, 2022 10:52 am • 119 Replies • 24727 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

Creidsinn means to believe and that’s what I decided to do, even though I’d been lied to and led on and almost given up on finding a dynamic again. I chose to believe-even against the odds.

Wed Jan 12, 2022 3:59 am • 267 Replies • 95837 Views

Punishments and Rewards

House of Tailion

I’m not sure I’d want to use soft limits in the punishment arena. Pushing limits can be exciting and should be an area that brings a dynamic fulfillment and pleasure. There’s a l ...

Wed Jan 12, 2022 3:53 am • 24 Replies • 7847 Views

Punishments and Rewards

No Body…. That’s not a punishments it’s a reward!

Tue Jan 11, 2022 4:33 am • 24 Replies • 7847 Views

Punishments and Rewards

I’m a bit confused how punishment can ‘freshen up’ a dynamic. Punishments are to be avoided at all costs. Maybe look to different disciplines, but even that isn’t really an area that brings freshness ...

Mon Jan 10, 2022 10:00 am • 24 Replies • 7847 Views