My philosophy is simple:
“What people say about me is none of my business.
I am who I am and do what I do.
I expect nothing and accept everything.
And that makes life easier.”
My philosophy is simple:
“What people say about me is none of my business.
I am who I am and do what I do.
I expect nothing and accept everything.
And that makes life easier.”
To say it’s been a tough few weeks would be something of an understatement!
The good news my baby girl I’ve been with for three years has decided she wants a full on normal relationship outside of kink !
The bad news is it’s not with me !
It’s with someone else who was part of our poly / open relationship.
There was an option on the table for a watered down Ddlg relationship but it didn’t sit right with me.
So sadly we have negotiated an exit to our Ddlg relationship whilst (hopefully) maintaining our deep and abiding friendship!
Don’t get me wrong I wish her all the best for her future journey, she needs it, wants it and deserves it!
I will always love what we had it’s been pretty amazing to be honest!
But now it’s time for me to rest, recover, let the hurt heal and decide my future path !
If we hold on to regret we stay in the past, what matters is what we do now ! 💙
It’s 4:18am , been awake since 2:00am, brain won’t shut down !
So many things buzzing my bonce
-relationships changing
-received divorce papers yesterday
-wondering where the future lies
-what happens next
-move forward or give up !!
Sighs all valid thoughts but no answers !
If anyone has Prime there’s a a great film about body positivity! It’s called My body is not obscene, well worth a watch 💙
https://thecage.co/https://images.thecage.co/static/no-image-found.pngThank You Purĕ for the challenge. Don’t blame me if I put you off your Christmas festivities!
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The original challenge can be found below
https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?blog_id=159424&postid=88400#anc
On this the Winter Solstice Day Eve, I wish you all
HEALTH, to enjoy the festive period and the coming year!
WEALTH, of knowledge to grow and develop on your journey!
HAPPINESS, of mind and soul to be true to yourself!
As the Sun returns let’s all just be grateful that we are here to enjoy it ! 💙
Have this one on me !
Don't you cry for the lost
Smile for the living
Get what you need and give what you're given
Life's for the living so live it
Or you're better off dead
Just had the most amazing six days with an awesome girl !
We watched Disney for hours !
Had amazing popcorn!
Camped out in the living room !
Went to McDonald’s because who doesn’t need another squishmallow ?
Had so many hugs and cuddles !
Just the best time !
Anyone that knows me knows exactly who the special girl is, my little soul mate 💙