The Phoenix - Eros' Rising

I will just leave this here

So, I was Naughty today and skipped my last Saturday classes. Only ones I missed all semester, so I am not worried about it.  But I also had good reasons to skip.  I went and got 30,000 little ladies this morning. 

3 new hives started!!  Now I just have to complete the shed if the fucking weather would cooperate. No snow all winter and now it is nonstop rain. 🤬. Thankfully there was enough of a break to get the girls in their hives.

With that done and the rest of the chores completed for the day, I do believe it is time to treat myself to dinner. I was supposed to go out to some friends tonight but, I really don’t want to drive that far. So instead, I am going to make my way over to the local bar and grab some dinner and have a beer or 2 or 6. Not sure yet. With Hekate away, it is a bit quiet. So I am going to go listen to the locals in our small town of 400 and see what the gossip is.  Not to mention, this place has some great frikin food. I do love small town bars for that reason. And thankfully the place is 10 minutes away if that.

After that, who knows🤷‍♂️. Maybe I will jump on GTA for a bit or RDR2. We shall see.

Such the lively night life of country living. 🤣

Anyone that games on PS let me know.

I don’t know about you all but, after a long day of working, whether at a job or around the house, there is nothing like a hot shower to get cleaned up and starting to relax.

Well I figured it was time for me to start coming out of my shell a bit, so I decided that I would post a picture of me after my shower.

Anyone That knows me will tell you that I do not normally post pictures of my self, much less nude pictures.  So this one is difficult to do.  I may remove it later and I can only imagine what Hekate is going to say. But here we go. With a count to 10

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There it is. I guess that wasn’t that bad.
Let me know what you think. 😊

~Eros❤️🖤❤️🖤

Hekate has left me alone for 5 days!!  Oh the trouble I could get into. 😈

With that being said, these will be a busy 5 days for me while she is out of town for her residency. 
Between finishing up school for this semester, taking care of the 4 footed furry kids, bearded dragon, ducks, chickens, and rabbits, I have to finish building the bee shed (if the weather would cooperate), get the bees and get them in their hives, and some other miscellaneous things.

The only “fun” this old boy will be having is on Saturday night when I swing out to some good friends of ours for a bit of a celebration and a bonfire.

The life of homesteading.  I wouldn’t have it any other way though. And plus, it keeps me out of trouble. 👿 

To the rest of you, I hope that you have a wonderful weekend filled with all of your hearts desires. 

~Eros❤️🖤❤️🖤

Sitting here this morning for a bit before going to meet up with another D/s couple this afternoon for a relaxing day with friends, I started reading through the blogs. This also makes me look at people’s profile pages. I don’t just look though, I read them. And if I like what I read, I hit the “Love this profile” button.

The thing is that sometimes people think because we hit that button or comment on a post, we are automatically attracted to that person and we want to start a romantic conversation with that person.  And maybe for some, that is the case. Not for me though.

I need to specify that if I like your profile or post, it is because I like and appreciate what you have put in it.  It does not mean that I am romantically/physically attracted to you. That is not how I tick.  (Ask Hekate)

With that being said, if you message me, I will respond and have a conversation.  I am pretty friendly that way. (You can vet that with people here who know me) I have no objection to having a conversation with anyone as long as they are respectful. Does that mean that I am trying to get in your knickers or am going to let you in mine?  NOPE!!  It means that we, as adults, are having a convo.  That’s it.

I will specify, as many already know, that Hekate and I are considering to add another person to what we have, dynamic wise and life wise. But that will only be the right person. Hekate and I have agreed that we will both be in agreement together before allowing it. And yes, we have certain criteria that has to be met before we would even consider someone. (We are picky)

The bottom line is this, if I like your profile, it is because I like what you have in it. If you want to start a conversation, great!!  I/we are always looking to make more friends.  Just don’t think that because I loved your profile or loved your post and commented that I am after something that I am not.

I will finish by saying this…

If I/we are attracted to a person, that person will know.  We will make our intentions clear.

~Eros❤️🖤❤️🖤

OMFG!!!

Well we had one. Not even a week into the vetting process and the true colors came out.

(no this person is not on the cage)

I am not sure what people are thinking sometimes but, I know that some are not in their right minds.

One thing that I will not tolerate during vetting is disrespect and finger pointing someone trying to drive a wedge between Hekate and I.  That shit doesn’t work with me.

Hekate and I talk and communicate. We have a conscious relationship that is open and raw. We own our own stuff and are very self aware. We communicate about everything. EVERYTHING!!!


We make this very clear up front. We do not hide this fact. So when someone comes in and thinks they can drive a wedge, it isn’t going to happen.  Not to mention, they need to be able to communicate openly. 
Everyone knows we are seeking. We aren’t hiding it. 
With that said, if you are going to want to speak with us about it, come with the correct intentions, be honest, be willing to be transparent. We will not be duped. 

It is that time of year once again for Shamrocks and Shenanigans.

Here are a couple for the ladies. 

The next one - If you know, you know. 

For those that have no Irish in them, this is for you.

I want to thank you for viewing.

The following gratuities are accepted.

😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️

Thank you for playing!!

😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️

~Eros❤️🖤❤️🖤

And because I am more Scottish than Irish.

Okay, I am going to go on a rant for a moment so that I can get this out of my system. Please bear with me.

If you are going to start talking with someone, be honest about your intentions. Be upfront about what you are looking for and stop the BS games. No one has time for that and no one wants to be involved in the drama. 

Learn to live consciously and be self aware. If you are here just to play stupid games to see how many people you can fuck with, then grow the fuck up. Playing mental games with people who did not consent makes you one of the biggest douche  bags out there.  Stop your shit!!

(Thank you for listening to my rant)

Here is a little something for all the douche bags out there.

https://youtube.com/shorts/CDaDr4rWjtU?si=dfLIoMA8AJQWwwNE

As many of you get ready for a Valentine’s Dinner, 

I sit in a waiting room of a hospital waiting for Hekate to come out of surgery. 

Before you all start with the OMG what happened???,

This was a planned surgery that happened to fall on Valentine’s Day.  We have been waiting for a bit for it. (Part of the reason I have been absent)

None the less, instead of  doing the traditional thing, I will practice my patience for a bit longer. As if I have a choice. 🤣🤣

It also gave me some time to reflect while looking over Lake Superior.

I/we are not looking for your sympathy or anything along that line. What we would ask is that as each of you celebrates in your own way, that you remember that there are those out there that cannot, for whatever reason. 
Say a prayer for those who are fighting this Valentine’s Day. 
Also, remember to never take for granted what you have and to give thanks for it every chance you can. 

To each of you

~Eros❤️🖤❤️🖤

As we are only 2 days out from Christmas, I thought I would hop on a little early to wish all who celebrate it a Very Merry Christmas. 
And to all of us a Very Merry Kinkmas

Here are some funny things I found online while doing some shopping  

And of course the Kinkmas Shenanigans